Thursday, December 11, 2014

Melissa Ross Barcelona - August 2014


Going to Barcelona has been a dream of mine for a large portion of my life.  It was without a doubt on the Bucket List.  So when we decided to make the trip there at the End of August for Ross birthday I was so thrilled.  This is what I was waiting for!  We planned to take the train to Barcelona and spend a few nights there, then rent a car and drive into the South of France and stay in Marseille before driving back to Barcelona for another night.  I think it cost us around 140 euros for both of us round trip on the train.  It was a 7 hour journey each way but didn't feel that long.  We just watched movies and enjoyed the views and of course took advantage of the snack car coffee.

I do not even know where to begin with my praise of Barcelona.  It is more than gorgeous, its beauty is not something I can put into words.  Everything just feels exactly as you would imagine it would feel.  I had an idea in my head of what it would be and it was exactly that.  The Mediterranean, the palm trees, the buildings, the hustle and bustle, the plazas, and the food, just everything was amazing.  There were obviously a million tourists but it didn't make it feel touristy it just felt like an amazing city with international flair.  You could lay on the beach all day then roam the busy streets at night finding cool bars to grab a drink, any kind of food you desired and of course the people watching was spectacular. 

 Jazz bar we found in the Gothic Quarter our first night

Beautiful Plaza in the Gothic Quarter

We were in heaven with the food selection.  If you remember from previous posts Spain is not very vegetarian friendly so being in a city where we could get anything we wanted to eat was pretty great for us.  We ate Chinese, Mexican, Italian, Indian and of course there was some croissants and coffee in there as well.  There are also Starbucks.  Oh how I miss Starbucks!  They are different here than in Canada, the food is different and they did not understand all my specifications but it was lovely being somewhere so familiar and having adult sized coffees.  We also enjoyed a couple adult beverages while we were there and let me tell you nothing beats a pitcher of sangria and a plate of nachos on a beach side patio overlooking the friggin Mediterranean!  

We walked all over that city.  Hours spent just wandering through the Gothic quarter, along the waterfront, through gorgeous parks and cathedrals and just down any street that had an interesting looking building and believe me there are many.  Barcelona is different than the rest of Spain, there is a great deal of Gaudi influence in the buildings and they speak a different kind of Spanish which makes it even more confusing for us.  There are however many people who speak English and the people are so friendly that you just make it work even if you do not understand each other.  The vibe of the city is different.  It felt so welcoming and safe.  We did however leave our camera in the hotel safe when we went to the beach.  I don’t care how safe it feels we are in a huge tourist city full of pick pockets and beach thieves.




Poor Ross lost his hat and refused to go buy a new one on the day we were going to the beach and like an idiot I forgot to pack the sunscreen in our beach bag and so that resulted in some serious sunburn.  We even rented an umbrella so we could have some shade because it was 40+ degrees and humid so we didn’t want to get sick (I am notorious for my heat stroke) but just the time spent in the water was enough to fry us.  Well worth it though.  I have never swum in water like that, warm and a colour of blue green I have only seen in movies.  Being in the water and looking at the palm trees made me feel so at peace, so happy and so lucky.  Not only am I experiencing something I have dreamed of but I am doing it with my best friend and the man I will spend my life with.  I truly feel so grateful for this experience.

We planned on visiting the Gaudi cathedral because that is what you do when you go to Barcelona but the line just to get tickets was over an hour and they were 15 euros each.  We just felt like there were so many other things we wanted to see and do that we didn't go in.  We did see the outside though which was incredible.  If we go back to Barcelona we will for sure buy tickets online and go in.  One thing we didn't like though was that half the building was covered in scaffolds and cranes everywhere.  I understand maintenance and building have to happen but it really took away from the beauty and the wonder of it all.

After 3 nights we rented a car and drove up the coast and into the south of France.  The drive was alright but not as picturesque as we were hoping.  We couldn't see the water for most of it but when we did it was nice.  One thing we found interesting were the hookers.  Yes I said hookers.  We would be driving down the highway (not the major highway but more like a country highway) and all of a sudden there would be a “lady” in her panties and come fuck me heels just standing on the side of the road.  It was a little shocking.  Then about a mile away you would see the Club. 

Side note I have learned that when you want to go out dancing here do not ask where the clubs are as people will think you want a strip club.  When you want to go dancing you go to a discothèque.
So anyhow we saw many of these “ladies” as we drove up to the boarder and for a little while after we crossed.  I do not know if it is legal but there they are.  I felt sad for them.  I mean not only is it a dangerous profession to begin with but they are just left alone on the side of the road in basically no clothes and a hard plastic lawn chair to sit on.  Anything could happen.  I am curious how many go missing or turn up dead.  They didn't look very good (I guess most hookers don’t) but they looked so tired and much older than I am sure they were. 

We also learned while driving that pretty much every major highway in Spain and France are toll roads.  After our drive to Marseille and back we had spent almost 100 euros just on road fees, very unexpected and frustrating.  So just be aware this exists. 

Marseille from Notre Dame Cathedral

Marseille is gorgeous, definitely one of my favourite places we have been so far.  It is the 5th largest city in France and is home to some beautiful old buildings, war barracks and a coast line that is to die for.  We unfortunately were only there for 2 nights so we did not have time to explore the beaches but they sure looked amazing from what we could see.  We spent our time roaming through the city, visiting cathedrals and eating more delicious foods.  There were a lot of activities happening in the squares of the city.  We saw many outdoor dance classes like salsa and a lot of tango.  It was great entertainment.  There was also a great deal of street vendors and buskers.  One guy was playing Bob Marley and he had these two homeless people dancing and it was actually beautiful.  We watched for a long time.  They really made you feel the music.

 The streets of Marseille


Notre Dame Cathedral

We sat on the pier in the middle of downtown and just watched everyone wandering around at night and ate yummy treats.  Of course I bought some lavender soap since we are in the south of France and Provence is the capital of lavender! Also I love artisan soap.  Its something Ross has pointed out on many occasions although I do not buy half the soap I want.  He doesn't know how strong I am fighting my urge to have all the soaps.

On our last day in France it was also Ross birthday so we decided to drive into Aix-En Provence for breakfast before our long drive back to Barcelona.  It was a perfect little French town and we had a great time exploring the narrow streets and taking in all we could of the old world before heading out.  We stopped and bought fresh fruit from a farmers market for our trip and smelled every flower in the market.
It was a gorgeous day to be driving and we had a lovely time. I still cant believe I have been to France!  I know to some people its not a big deal but I have never been someone who is lucky enough to have travelled like this before so to me it’s a dream come true.  This is the kind of thing other people do or that I see in movies, it is not the kind of thing I do.  So the fact that not only am I living in Spain but travelling into other European countries fills me with a joy I cannot put into words.


Happy Birthday my love


We spent one last night in Barcelona and took in as much as we could.  We ended up finding this huge art museum late that night so it was closed but on the stairs were many people just taking in the view and listening to this guy playing a keyboard and singing.  It was a perfect end to the night.  I would be happy to go back anytime.  What a magical city.

Streets of Barcelona at night

Fun Fact about French:  So being from Canada we are taught French as a second language in school.  I took it from the 4th grade until the 11th grade and then again in college.  I though I had a pretty good handle on it.  I could by no means have an intense conversation but I could absolutely get by in a French speaking place.  However now that we have been living in Spain and focusing so much on learning to speak Spanish we have both forgotten all the French we know!  We would be sitting in a restaurant in Marseille and instead of saying Bonjour we would say Hola, or when asking for water we would say aguq instead of aqua.  Just little things but we both found it extremely hard to remember any French.  I also think part of that reason is the French we are taught in school is not done very well unless you go to an actual French immersion school.

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