Tuesday, April 12, 2016

The South of Spain - April 2016


Granada has been a city we have wanted to visit the entire time we have been here but we never found ourselves in a position to make it down that way.  Luckily for us our friend Lloyd wanted to make sure we had a great final adventure here in Spain so he planned a super fun weekend away.  So last Friday Lloyd, Kevin, Ines, Ross and myself embarked on a road trip south.

We rented a car here and drove for just over 7 hours to Ronda which was the first city on our tour.  Though the drive is long once you get a few hours out of Valladolid the scenery is spectacular.  Rolling green pastures and mountains line the highways.  All of us but Ines live in Valladolid so she flew from Madrid to Malaga and took a bus to meet us at the flat in Ronda.  As usual we had issue with our rental.  We ended up being put up in a different apartment then we rented, however because of the issue we were given less of a charge so that worked out nicely.



Ronda is a gorgeous mountain top city that is situated above a cavernous gorge (el tajo). The views from the Vantage points (mirador) are superb.  You see the valley villages and the mountains which surround them. It seems like endless nature and gives such a sense of serenity. Many famous authors have spent a considerable amount of time in the city and their romantic and powerful writing has influenced tourism in the area.  Ernest Hemmingway, Orson Wells and Rainer Maria Rilke are among the most notable.




“I have sought everywhere the city of my dreams, and I have finally found it in Ronda”
(“He buscado por todas partes la ciudad sonada, y al fin la he encontrado en Ronda”)

 As written by Rilke.


We stayed in the city center which made it very convenient to go out for late night tapas and drinks.  My favourite place we stopped at was El Lechuguita (the little lettuce).  It was a “charming” tapas bar with cheap snacks so you couldn’t go wrong.  There were even some actual vegan options for me!  It is famous for the lettuce tapa which is basically a quarter of a head of lettuce dressed with oil and garlic and honestly it was the best lettuce I have ever had. 



In the morning before continuing the road trip we explored Ronda in the daylight.  It was filled with narrow alley ways, interesting old buildings and the famous Puente Nuevo (new bridge) which connects the city across the gorge.  The construction of the bridge began in 1751 it took 42 years and 50 workers deaths before its completion in 1793.  It is said that many prisoners were thrown to their death from the bridge during the Spanish civil war. 




After Ronda our journey took us first to the ancient ruins of Acinipo (also known as Ronda la Vieja – Old Ronda – although it has a separate origin and history) This ancient city was erected over 2000 years ago for Ceasars retired soldiers.  If you are in the area it is definitely worth a look.  It is only 20 km from Ronda and the drive is lovely. 




We continued on from here towards Sentinel de las Bodegas for a quick tour and lunch.  This small town (pueblo) is very famous because it is built in a canyon along the Rio Trejo (Trejo River).  Many of the buildings themselves are built right into the rock and therefore have interesting cave walls and ceilings inside. 




The more modern Sentinel has evolved from a fortified Moorish town but historians believe that with the evidence they have from cave dwelling societies nearby that the area was likely inhabited more than 25000 years ago.  I have never seen anything quite like it.  It was the perfect place to have lunch and then post lunch shots and cookies.  Be prepared however to do some serious walking here.  The city is steep and slippery so wear good shoes! 





From here we drove for around 2 hours to do a short but lovely hike in a nature reserve in the Sierra del Torcal mountain range which is just south of the city of Antequera. The hike, called El Torcal de Antequera, was so interesting because of the landscape.  I have never seen rock formations like this before.  I learned that the limestone here is from the Jurassic age (so about 150 million years old) I felt like I was on another planet or that in the very least I should see a dinosaur. 




It was great to get out of the car for a good leg stretch and see the views from the lookouts.  We could see all the way to the sea from certain points and that always makes my heart happy.



After the hike it was back to the highway to get to Granada before sunset.  We stayed in a hostel in the city center called Dreams Room.  If you are a hostel stayer it wasn’t bad so I would recommend looking it up.  Ross and I stayed in a private room, which yes is a little more expensive but for me personally sharing a room with strangers is not something I am willing to do (I don’t even like sharing a room with people I know).  I like my privacy.

Once we were checked into the hostel we dashed up to the Miraodr de San Nicolas (Saint Nicholas lookout) to watch the sunset with the perfect view of The Alhambra.  The mirador is on top of a hill in the ancient Moorish district of Albaicin/Albayzin.  This area is one of the oldest centers of Muslim culture in Granada.  It is a maze of steep winding streets surrounded on either side by shops and traditional houses which are separated from the street by high walls and often have a garden.  So after we had our fill of breathtaking sunset views we wandered through the neighbourhood towards dinner.




The streets were full of people enjoying tapas, playing music, selling crafts and generally just enjoying the beautiful evening.  The main strip we wandered down, where we found some dinner at a Moroccan restaurant, was Caldereria street (calle de la caldereria nueva) also known as Little Morocco.  Here there were a myriad of touristy shops, Moroccan tea houses and craft shops. 





Then it was out for tapas and drinks.  Something I like very much about the south is that when you order drinks (even water which is all I have) you get a free tapa.  Now usually it is not something vegetarian or vegan but I love that this tradition stands.  It makes going out for drinks in the evening more exciting and means you could forgo dinner all together and just survive off deep fried treats with your drinks. 

Our last day began with Ross, Ines and I taking an early morning hike up the hill to The Alhambra which is a palace and fortress compound.  Words cannot describe the beauty of this place.  Its ownership has exchanged many hands throughout its history from Romans to Moors to Christians and is now a UNESCO World Heritage Site.  This palace is one of Spain’s most notable tourist destinations and has the county’s most significant Islamic architecture.





The palace has a theme described as “paradise on earth” with columns, fountains, reflecting pools and gorgeous gardens filled with orange trees, roses and wisteria covering the arches.  The rooms all have arched windows and doors which lead to beautiful courtyards and offer an incredible view of the city and mountains.  The walls and ceilings are carved stucco and stone in geometric patterns and Arabic writing.  It is incredible. 







We spent several hours marvelling over everything before heading back down the hill towards the Moorish district again to have tea and falafels. After which we met up with Lloyd and Kevin where they were having tapas and we wandered towards the area of Sacromonte.





Sacromonte is an interesting area with incredible views of The Alhambra, the mountains and the river Darro.  It is characteristically inhabited by Gypsies, bohemians and Flemish artists, but it was the Gypsies/Gitanos/Romas who first settled in this area in the 15th century.  The hillside is lined with stark white buildings built into the hill and many houses are in actual caves. 




Here is a better explanation from Rick Steves


It was a really neat place to spend a hot sunny afternoon exploring. 



After a relaxing lunch then post lunch pastry and coffee we set off on our journey back to Valladolid, with a quick stop in Madrid to drop Ines off.  We left Granada around 530 and made it back to Valladolid just after midnight.

I had an amazing time and truly appreciate the people I was able to share these experiences with.  Like I have said in previous posts I have met some truly incredible people here in Spain and I value all the time I have been able to spend getting to know them and enjoying life in Espana. 



This country has been my home for the past two years and I feel like I have experienced a great deal and learned so much about it. A lot of that is because of the people I have met who have shown me wonderful places and taught me so much about the history and traditions.  I feel very lucky to have had this opportunity.

Until Next time,

Besos xx


Monday, April 4, 2016

Saying Goodbye to friends, Valladolid, Spain - April 2016

Ross and I having breakfast in Aix en Provence, France 

How do you make friends as an adult? If you do not work with someone, or go to school with them than how do you find them?  I have never normally been someone who would just ask a stranger who I met in a shop if they wanted to hang out but then I moved to a foreign country.  Turns out that is the best way to make friends when you are in a strange place where you literally only know your partner.

Ross and I in Cadiz for Carnivale

Before Ross and I moved to Spain we said that we would be each others only friend for the next two years and that had to be something we were alright with.  Of course since we are best friends it has gone very well (we seldom look at each other with disdain) in fact this journey has made us closer than ever and I am incredibly grateful for that. We knew it was entirely possible that we would not meet anyone or make any friends while we were here so it was a wonderful surprise when we made some who will be our friends for life.


 Lloyd and Ross in Leon 

 Heather and I 

Lloyd and Laura at the great tortilla challenge! 

I have met some truly wonderful people who are going to make our leaving here much more difficult.  I did not prepare myself for this possibility. When we first moved from Vancouver it tore my heart out saying goodbye to our friends but I knew that in two years time I would be returning home and would very likely see them all again.  I unfortunately cannot say the same thing for the people we have connected with here.

Heather, Erin, Sarah and I

Many of the people we have met here were here, like us, on short contracts and had no intention of staying in Spain long term.  Because of this we have already had to say good bye to some lovely people.  Then there are some we have met who are here indefinitely and I imagine it will be hard for them when we move on. 

Laura and I at our place for our final tea and soup date before she moved back to Florida 

We went to a birthday lunch once and as I looked around the table I thought how crazy is this for us to be sitting here with all these people from different parts of the world who all just randomly met in this small city in Spain.  We all connected because of a commonality of speaking the same language but turned that into meaningful relationships.

I think the best part of meeting these friends is that we all met randomly, whether at Ikea buying pans, walking down the river or in a book shop searching out English books (which didn’t exist).  We heard someone speaking English and walked over to say hello.  We knew nothing about one another other than we spoke the same language and in our circumstances that was enough.  We were all in a similar position – we were in a foreign place and didn’t know anybody else.  We all needed to know we had someone who understood us, someone we could simply go grab a tea with and talk. 

Laura and Heather                  Ross and Kevin 


Caroline and I 

I love that with a few of these random encounters something special grew from it.  I made friends with people who not only would I never have met otherwise but I made friends with people who back home we might never have given the relationship chance.  I remember laughing with the girls here one day about how I, the former goth queen, was now best friends with a former prom queen.


Kevin, Cara, Ross and I in Prague

Heather with her mom and sister Rachel

Of course it is not only people from around the world who wound up here with us that made our time special but the Spanish friends we have met.  There are many people who we have met who invited us into their social circles and helped us feel like a part of the community and less on the outside.  Although we may not always understand one another due to my complete lack of Spanish skills they never made me feel like less of a part of the group.

Ross and Daoiz in Astudillo


The most amazing group of people who let us tag along hiking with them! 



I am so grateful for the wonderful adventures I have had thanks to our Spanish friends.  I feel like I learned so much and was able to see the country in a way I wouldn’t have seen just as a tourist. They welcomed us like family and showed us beautiful places, people and customs that only a local would know. 

The coolest Pena to spend a night drinking with 


Lloyd, Juan Ross and I 

Ross and Alejandro at Oktoberfest Valladolid 

We all came from very different backgrounds, had different interests, tastes and world views but none of that mattered.  We formed connections ignoring how we were different and appreciating how we were the same. We have all been able to learn about each others cities countries, traditions and language quirks from around the world. I have made some meaningful friendships here and not knowing if or when I will see these people in person again hurts. 


Laura, Kevin, Ross and Lloyd in Cadiz for Carnivale 

Raquel and Louis 

None of us know for sure where our lives will take us. That is especially true for people who travel and or move around.  We can never know who or what will pop into our lives each day.  One of the lessons I have learned here is to be open to the possibilities of each day.  Be open to people.  I hope that when I am back in Canada I can feel less afraid of asking a stranger if they want to grab a tea.  You just never know what kind of connections you can make with random people on the street.


Myself, Ross, Sergio and Lloyd in Leon 


Ines, Lloyd, Ross and myself hiking in the Picos de Europa

Being a traveler is a wonderful thing.  There are experiences I have had that I could never have enjoyed if I never left my home town.  I have seen things that had only existed before in books and on television, and I have met beautiful souls who I would never have known if I didn’t step out of my comfort zone and head out into the world.


Rachel and Heather 

Kayaking with Lloyd, Sergio, Ross, and Ines  

Heather in Astudillo for St Patricks day 

I want to say thank you to the people I met here who made my time in Valladolid so much more enjoyable by just being yourselves.  I hope that we can find each other again out in the big bright world.  

Also....

I wanted to be sure to include the wonderful friends from home who made their way here to visit us!

Ross and his parents in Paris 

Jono in Retiro Park in Madrid

Amy and I in San Sebastian 

Ash and I in Barcelona